THANKS JANICE

The lady speaks in the cause of men in society.

I need to vent a bit based on my own experience.

Only recently I have stopped tuning pianos for a living. I started tuning in about 1983 and kept at it for 35 years. This was a second vocation I used to augment my income I received from small churches I pastored. I may tune a few church pianos in the coming years, but I have stopped tuning in homes because of the trend by women to sue men for rape and winning, regardless of what did or didn't happen.

But, my point in this comment is that the piano tuning trade is about 98% done by men. Can women make good piano tuners?

Answer: They can, and I have met one woman piano tuner who seemed to do good work. So, why are they not in the trade?

1. Piano tuning is not a trade that you can acquire by agitating for you rights. To become a piano tuner you need to study a very complicated process with no tolerance for less than perfection. There is no such thing as a fast tuning or a cut rate tuning. Every tuner learns early that, no matter whether it is a concert hall or a retired old lady with bad hearing, the only tuning that goes on every piano is a perfect one. If you try to do a less than perfect tuning, you will not be able to finish the tuning successfully. This trade is basically self-regulating by the mathematics and unforgiving laws of music.

2. Tuning a piano goes on and on for possibly hours. It all depends on the condition and brand of piano. Steinway made some shoddy grands in the 1970s when they were in financial trouble, and those pianos fight the piano tuner all the way. You cannot tell the customer he has a low quality Steinway. People all think that is impossible with Steinways. Also, once you start tuning, you cannot stop and walk off. A partly tuned piano is a train wreck if not completed. 

3. Also, your either find tuning to be a new fresh challenge every time you tune, or you quickly hate the sheer boredom of the endless repetition of the process. I personally never got bored with tuning pianos. That is not because I am a better man than other men. It is simply because God put me together that way, and I never had to emotionally fight to keep tuning. Piano tuners have a very special temperament, and it is impossible to be an emotional person when at work and while tuning pianos. Women are made by God to react emotionally to frustration. Men get frustrated and decide to conquer. This is the main reason women cannot do well at piano tuning. It is not a trade you just learn by practice and determination. You cannot develop a negative attitude to your work and survive in piano tuning.

4. Just like plumbers and air conditioning tradesmen, you have to go into all sorts of homes, and you have to tune for men who actually ARE rapists. You don't get to quizz them ahead of time to see what they are like, and you may find they are decent until you are half way through the tuning. If you flee the home at that point, you will be sued for leaving the piano in a mess. You also have to tune in public schools where macho boys will see you as vulnerable and steal you tools when you are not looking. I personally have had some very ugly customers I had to deal with, like aggressive faggots and Satanists. It takes a lot of diplomacy, and even some threats, to make such men back off.

5. The day will come when some well known musician will call you for a tuning. When he hears you are a woman, he may just hang up on you at once. Performance piano playing is clearly dominated by men. This is because women play with feeling, and men play to conquer the music and the piano. The results are that the average audience loves the effect of conquest a lot more than a lullaby. Concert musicians are also picky and demanding and critical. They often demand things that cannot be done in the tuning process, and you will have to explain to them firmly that you cannot produce their every whim and fancy. Doing this man to man does not always work, but doing it woman to man is going to be virtually impossible. Concert musicians believe they know everything there is to know about music, that is, as they see it. 

So, lady, go ahead, order a correspondence piano tuning course, get yourself a tuner friend as a mentor, and I promise you that you will be putting your tool kit on eBay about a month after booking your first customer. You simply cannot do anything a man can.

And, as Janice satirically points out, you need to hate me for telling you this. But, if you cannot lift just as much as the men you work with, and if you cannot climb a TV tower and replace the red flashing light bulb, don't apply for a job where you have to keep begging a man to help you finish the work. That is cheap feminism that a real man hates.

Are women better at anything in the music field than men? 

Absolutely. Consider the career of Barbara Streisand. She has charmed the world with her exceptional voice control for many years. Another area where women do best is in piano accompaniment of congregational singing. Women, being created more emotional beings, know how to serve. Men know how to conquer. A man playing for congregational singing is like quarter back changing a baby's diaper- all thumbs. I have never allowed a man to accompany group singing in any church I pastored over the years. It just does not work. I do not know why, but women seem to do better at playing the harp than men do. Women are more agile and delicate at musical dance than men.

Stay away from jazz bands ladies. I do not know why, but men seem to do better there. It may be because of men's behavior behind the curtain. 

Finally, there are exceptions to everything, but trends are a very good thing to consult before you run out in the world and go looking for a job to take away from a man, or visa verse men.

The human ear wants to hear high notes slightly sharp. Piano tuners know this and tune it into the treble on purpose. Barbara Streisand also learned this somewhere in her past, and she has mastered it. This is the reason she sounds so correct and sweet on the high notes, and that is why savvy women can charm the roughest macho man when they sing some songs.

WHY DO YOU HAVE MARRIAGE PROBLEMS?

THERE ARE TWO POSSIBLE REASONS:

1. Your wife didn't marry Jesus. She married you. Pity the man whose wife sends him the message that if he were the perfect husband, she would become a perfect wife. That is a lot of horse leavings, sir. No husband is the man God wants him to be, AND, his wife is not the woman God wants her to be. We are all still growing and learning to be more like Jesus. So, if your wife is busy helping you to be a better Christian nice guy, tell her to cut it out NOW. Tell her that her job is to be more like Jesus. Only then will she become the woman and wife she wants to be.

Also, tell your wife she did not marry Dr. James Dobson or any other Christian shrink with an answer for every problem in life. AND, stop sending donations to those busy body gurus.


2. Lady, your Harlequin novel marriage does not exist. Oh, it was great on the honeymoon, but I am sure you recall the first time your husband did not come across like the handsome prince who grew up in Windsor Castle and rescued maidens six days a week. And, if your marriage is going bad, I can tell you why..... you are desperate to remake your husband, and you nag the living daylights out of him. Oh, you do it ever so lovingly, right? But, YOU ARE A BLASTED NAG. If you want to keep your marriage, you must let your husband do the marriage saving, not you. 

Your assignment, lady: Start LIKING your husband, not just loving him. Take an interest in some of the man things you think should be shucked off by him. Stop demanding that he make you happy. If your man likes to go bass fishing, ask him if you can come along once. You will have to be ready to catch him before he hits the floor. AND, make a serious effort to learn how to catch a bass. Listen a lot, and keep your mouth closed a lot.

If you don't have Bible reading together at the end of the day, ask your husband if you can do that. DO NOT jabber about how that might save your marriage. Do you want your man to see God as his therapist, or do you want him to be a man of Christ, and figure it out for himself as he reads the Bible?

Make a covenant with God that you will never tell your husband what is wrong with him, or how something he believes or stands for is wrong. Add to that covenant the promise to God that you will, until death do you part, always ASK your husband's opinion about something troubling you. Finally, promise God you will accept your husband's decisions or opinions and live with them, NEVER pointing out later if it did not work out like he expected.

If you will not make this covenant, you do not deserve a husband. There ought to be a convent in Antarctica for women like you.

Finally, when you are out and about and talking to friends, BRAG ON YOUR HUSBAND instead of joining the ladies (other word is B____) as they tell each other all their husband's oddities and foibles. By doing this, you will prevent yourself from falling into temptation with some handsome dude. He won't even try after he hears how you brag on your man.


CONCLUSION

The party who destroys a marriage is almost always the wife. She drives the man crazy with her expectations, she nags the man about his being manly, and she tells all the wrong people what she is thinking. I am talking about her parents, pastor, and other lady friends. These people almost always take up her cause, blame the man for everything that goes wrong, and pass the gossip about your husband around town. If you want to keep your husband, GIVE HIM BACK TO GOD.

AND, learn to live with the results. If you do not back off and become a woman of God in your home, your husband will find a lady who does not nag and bitch at him, and she will take your man away from you. Oh, society will join in eagerly to take up your side and blame your husband for destroying your marriage, but as of this blog post, you will know, for the rest of you life, that you were warned that YOU are the main problem, the she-destroyer.

OK, buster, you read all this and you are saying to yourself, "Boy, that preacher sure nailed my wife."

So, sir, when is the last time you told your wife you love her? She needs to hear that. Do you dress to make your lady look good. Most men believe their wife makes them look good. If that happens to be true in your case, it is because you dress like Early Neanderthal. 

I need to hit you again, Buster....... Does your wife feel like the man who follows her through the door at the restaurant or at church makes her look special? Does your wife shine as she goes through the door, like, "This is my man, and he loves me." Or, do you look like you just came in from a baboon convention, to include your grungy ball cap on backwards?

I hesitate to brag, but I decided before we got married that I would dress to the nines for my sweetheart. We always get better service when eating out. Waitresses are very good to me right in front of my wife, and it is not because I am hustling them. It is because my wife's man clearly makes her look good, and those poor young waitresses have to go out with a dork in crocks. 

I believe this doctrine, sir. A woman always wonders if she really looks good tonight. So, when she asks herself that, she looks at her man, and his effort to dress up for his wife will result in her answer to her own question..... "Yes. I look just fine."

Story One: My wife and I were assigned to Eldoret, Kenya where I was to be the headmaster of a pastor's training school. I was not as busy for the Lord as I wanted to be in that job, so I went to the local High School where there were classes offered in religion..... Protestant, Catholic, Islamic, and Traditional. I got a resume together, and I dressed in a suit, and I presented myself to the African headmaster applying to teach the Protestant class.

The African headmaster looked at my resume, and he stared at me for a while, and he said, "I have never had a European hand me a resume or wear a suit and tie for me. You certainly may teach the class." He then offered to buy new text books for the class, and he asked me to find the one I wanted. I had been told by other missionaries that most headmasters did not want White people teaching religion classes.

Story Two: I was in Basic Training in the Army in 1968 at Fort Knox, Kentucky. We got our first weekend pass, and my wife drove down from Michigan to spend it with me. On Sunday, we went to a nice restaurant in Elizabeth Town. I was permitted to wear civilian clothes on pass, but I decided to wear my Class-A uniform instead. When the waitress came after the meal, she said our dinner had been paid for. I was astounded. She asked if I had seen the older man across the room who had just left. She said he was a retired Colonel, and almost every Sunday he paid for a soldiers dinner. The Colonel determined who to pick for this kindness by two things..... The soldier had to have his wife with him, and he had to be dressed in his Class-A uniform

You put fresh oil in your Camero regularly. Do you put fresh love in your marriage just as faithfully?

This preacher is going to ask a blunt question, whether you men like it or not.....

How often do you surprise your wife with a hug or kiss WITHOUT grabbing her nipple? Do you love her just as much for her mind and spirit as for her booty? 

Now, lady, never send me mail claiming I threw you under the bus in my blog. But, stop believing Hillary Clinton and the feminazi alliance when they claim that men do all the damage in marriage. My experience as a pastor has convinced me that the wife is more often the destroyer than the man.

Men, one last favor I happen to know your wife wants from you..... would you men who work at home PLEASE turn off Rush Limbaugh. Replace him with some of this.

#METOO STRIKES AGAIN

There certainly is abuse of woman by some men.

But, the recent rush to accuse men of sexual abuse is getting out of hand. The following article is clearly written to tempt the reader to assume that the CEO of CBS is already guilty. He is not, not yet. In the USA a man is not declared guilty by newspapers and network talking heads. The only people with the power to find a man guilty is a jury in a proper court proceedings. 

HERE IS THE ARTICLE WHICH FINDS THE CEO GUILTY BEFORE TRIAL

A Bible believer today must resist the urge to believe every accusation. I for one, do not intend to ever again believe a report of offense against anyone from someone who does not provide air tight proof of their claims.

The Bible warns us about this:

Proverbs 25:18 A man that beareth false witness against his neighbour is a maul, and a sword, and a sharp arrow.

Proverbs 24:28 Be not a witness against thy neighbour without cause; and deceive not with thy lips.

Proverbs 3:29 Devise not evil against thy neighbour, seeing he dwelleth securely by thee.

1 Timothy 5:19 Against an elder receive not an accusation, but before two or three witnesses.

For you who claim to follow Jesus Christ, you are under Apostolic orders to never accept an accusation against another believer without two or three witnesses. When some Satan possessed gossiping bag lady in the church house comes to you with a bit of choice gossip, blast her with no mercy shown. It is bad enough to see people in the world at large destroying each other with false accusations, but when it comes into the Lord's Church, we must be brutal and fierce against it.

The real test is when you hear such things about people in some denomination you do not agree with. You are tempted to believe the evil report because they seem to deserve being abused. This  is every bit as evil when it is against the stranger to your circle of friends. Lies against other people are vile and worthy of godly revenge no matter who they are perpetrated against.

In no way am I suggesting that abuse of women should be ignored. But, a woman who makes accusations must provide witnesses, and she must be forced to make the accusation in a court of law where lying is punished by a prison sentence. Any woman can lie, and she can produce three lying friends, in order to destroy a man. That is, until she is sitting in the witness box and knows her lies will send her to jail. We also need to see more aggressive prosecution of perjury in the courts. Too many women today are being allowed to lie in court and walk free.

The moral of this whole discussion is that women need to learn that there are certain professions where the men in charge are beasts. Hollywood, and the media, are the worst offenders, and from stories I have heard from my family who worked in Hollywood, it has always been this way.

I see these Hollywood starlets, and the ladies on the talking head shows on TV, and most of them seem to believe that they can dress in a seductive way and expect men around them to not be affected. Frankly, when I see a woman showing lots of skin, I assume she WANTS attention from lusting men. That, or she is a ding bat who thinks undressing in public is the way to reward the boss for hiring you. So, when she gets more than she wants, she assumes

society will be shocked at the man who advances on her. The #MeToo women mock at this discussion, but godly woman know that modesty goes a long way to stopping unwanted attention. That is a fact, not a speculation.

If you, lady, find a job where you are expected to undress to be accepted, and you wear tight tops and flip you milk cans around for the men, you deserve all the sorrow you get. If you want to be a hooker, your pimp will demand that you run around half naked. If you see the women in some company dressing like whores, there is a reason for that. Just keep moving until you find a work place where modestly is in fashion. There ARE such places.

A tech supervisor I know had a young lady who did great work, but she dressed an a very suggestive way. She was not particularly sexual in her talk and conversation. But, a couple of young men started hustling her and being sexually rude. This supervisor got the two men fired. But, he talked to the young lady and told her that her suggestive dress was not helping the situation. She panicked and changed her wardrobe choices from then on, and she thanked the supervisor for talking to her. So, some or you women can change if you want to. But, some of you WANT to look like a whore simply for some morbid feminist buzz it gives you. 

Also, any young woman who agrees to have a meeting alone with a man is a fool. This is especially true when the man holds the power of a career over the woman. I frankly do not have any sympathy for these woman who go to Hollywood or Nashville and find themselves being raped or assaulted. That is SOP for that vile world. Decent men DO NOT exist in Hollywood. They are all beasts or prey.

Daniel survived the lion's den because God sent him angels to protect him. If you do not have a personal angel from God to defend you from the corporate lions, find another line of work.

WHY MEN SHOULD AVOID WOMEN IN THE WORK PLACE

Watch the video. You will see what is happening in the UK. Highly placed men in government are being accused of assaulting woman, and no one will tell the men what the charges are. In companies, the men are fired at once, and they too do not know what the charges are.

What is happening is that feminists want the right to destroy men. That is the whole story. 

Thus, it would be smart for men in the work place and in politics to avoid talking to women. Never communicate with a woman alone. Be sure to have a witness present. You need to understand that if you in any way offend a woman, she can totally destroy you by making a bogus charge of sexual harassment.

The only way to change this trend is to isolate women until the scream "uncle." The feminists need to become the perceived enemy of women so that the feminist leaders will be hated by woman who want friendships with men.

The culture is toast. It is all over. Make sure these Feminazis do not entrap you in their guerrilla warfare.

THIS ARTICLE PROVES THAT WOMEN ARE OUT TO TAKE MEN'S JOBS BY THEIR ACCUSATIONS

THIS ARTICLE PROVES THAT WOMEN IN POWER WANT TO KILL MEN, ESPECIALLY MALE COPS

My suggestion is for men to start looking for a job where they can work alone without women being involved with them. If this trend goes on and on, men may want to move to nations in the world where this trend is not happening.

Proverbs 5:3 For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil:
4 But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a twoedged sword.
5 Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell.
For survival purposes, treat every woman as a strange woman.

My personal caution. 

I have tuned pianos in homes for nearly 35 years. I have never had a bad experience with women making issues for me, even though very often I have had to tune where a woman was home alone during the day. All this has changed. I no longer go to a home to tune unless the husband will be there during the whole tuning. A grown child, especially a daughter, is not enough of a safety measure. If you are in a service, can you find an excuse to take your wife along? She could hold the other end of the wingwang etc. 

I also do not tune in churches or schools where only women or girls are present. In fact, I insist on tuning after school hours when only a male janitor is present.

Life is getting ugly, and I do not exactly like writing this blog post. But, I feel that I need to warn men, especially Christian men, that they now have women in the world who have joined an army of destroyers determined to send men to prison. These woman know they can destroy a man by a simple accusation, and they are on a roll. There will be nothing to stop them for a long time to come.

Pastors need to take special precautions. Never be alone with a woman..... NEVER. Do not have a lady church secretary. If you cannot find a man to do the job, do it yourself. Many executives in the business world are doing their own secretarial work.

Do not turn in hate against women, but do not make exceptions to your survival rules regarding women just to be nice. Drop your guard, and you could be spending your life savings defending yourself in court with the whole community and local media against you. If a women senses your caution and tries to flirt or get pushy, walk away, resign your job, and find other work. Do not complain to Human Resources. The HR person is a woman.

Regarding accusations you hear:

Never believe any accusation you hear about or read about from local gossip or from the media. Men need to close ranks and simply blast all accusations of sexual assault or harassment. I no longer believe any such stories unless the man openly admits he is guilty. I refuse to participate, even mentally, in the destruction of a man by a woman who is simply being a destroyer.

Finally, none of this applies if you are a hustler and make advances on women. You deserve all the misery these women can make for you.

FEMALE GHETTOS

The day of the Men's Club has met its match. For hundreds or thousands of years, men have had their gathering points. While the men were sitting on the porch off the general store in Briartown, Oklahoma, the ladies were on the party line phone trading gossip. 

Woman have always had their gathering point, such as the Women's Missionary Society of the local church. But, things have taken an interesting turn. A Finnish lady has bought an island, and it is females only. 

READ THE ARTICLE HERE

Speaking for, I suspect, about 98% of all males, I say, "Have fun, ladies." If you need to get onto an island far away and feel like you are liberated from men, so be it. But, I call you back to reality in any case, for...............

1. You would not be here if it were not for a man who impregnated your mother.

2. Men do the heavy work in your world.

3. You all get tired of your cur dog boy friends or husbands sooner or later and go looking for a well dressed Type A man.

4. Men fight your wars for you, and men either enforce your law or back up some lady cop who does.

5. Men open doors for you, even when you get snot nosed and decline that courtesy.

6. For the record, any man who does not treat you like a lady, in spite of your nasty attitude, is a slob. Very few of us men commend that behavior. Shocking, is it not?

You can bellyache all you want about the bondage of living in a world where men participate in your life, but you are stuck with us. The sooner you pack up the hate and get used to living with men, the sooner you will be a happy camper.

As to you men, laugh at them. Mock them. When they claim they need to escape from men, tell them to see if they can totally get lost while they are at it. A man will fly the helicopter which comes to rescue them. 

I have one last question for Kristina Roth, founder of the nanny island. Did any men help renovate and build anything on your island?

I must add a historic footnote. Ghettos are not places where people are forced to live. The first ghetto was invented by the Jews. The photo at the right is the entrance to the Jewish ghetto in Krakow.

In some European cities, hundreds of years ago, orthodox Jews wanted to live in an all Jewish community so they could feel pure and free of Gentile contamination. They therefore ran a wall, or even a rope, from building to lamp post all the way around their section of the city, and they made sure no Gentile could buy a home inside that walled off zone. This was even done in the USA in the city of Philadelphia using a long piece of wire.

The result was historic. The Gentiles decided they liked it that way. Those who were antisemitic liked it that the Jews were out of their neighborhoods. The end result was that Jews were treated worse when they ventured outside of their personal ghetto.

The moral from history tells me that women will not be treated better because they ghettoize themselves. They will be treated worse. Men, the sort who already have bitterness toward women, will try to drive women back into their self-made ghetto when they venture into a man's world. Blacks in America can tell you how this works.

I rest me case.

MORE ON FEMINIZATION OF SOCIETY HERE

EXAMPLE OF THE INTENSE HATE FOR MEN AMONG POWERFUL WOMAN

FAKE NEWS ABOUT WOMEN

Anyone who has lived in America for over 60 years knows that women need other women as friends. They can get crazy and have fun in a way that is very different from their times with their husbands or kids. This is true in secular circles, and it is true in the Lord's Church. 

The ladies' missionary society is a classic illustration. These ladies can talk about things that their husbands find boring or "off topic" to their own lives. The Amish are a great example. The wives get together and do hand work and trade stories and basically let their hair down. This characteristic in women, having lady friends, is ancient.

So, the following article is a lot of rubbish talk. Someone has found a way to do a research on women in which the outcome was predictable. The questions were undoubtedly loaded in the direction of feminist thinking of course, so this historic aspect of women's lives is translated into a premise that husbands are failures. This is exactly what we would expect from feminazis, and the media grabs the myth and runs with it.

READ THE ARTICLE

Any smart husband knows that his wife needs women friends to keep her balance in life. A wise husband will encourage his wife to make lady friends. What is totally missing here is a survey of husbands whose wives have lady friends to see how this actually makes them better wives and more interesting to their husbands.

The assumption from damned-to-Hell feminists is that husbands are again being mindless and uninteresting brutes. Men need to repent and start watching soap operas and reading Harlequin novels so they can have a lady-man session with the wives.

The irony is, men do the same thing. Men have male friends with whom they roar and have fun because they need the iron-sharpeneth-iron experience. Men need to go fishing and hunting with other men to have a balanced personality.

So, let's have no more of this blather, bluster, and bull about husbands letting the world down because their wives need lady friends. When you hear this rubbish, slap it down with a vengeance. The only thing that could come from this is for decent women to feel guilty because they have women friends whom they need to be socially balanced. What a wicked world it would be if women all decided they did not want to have other women for friends. 

If you men are nervous about what your wife talks about with other women, ask your wife not to discuss your intimacies with her lady friends. Talk about this instead of worrying about it. And, you men do the same courtesy with your wife when you are with your man friends.

You men also need to help your wife find time and geography opportunities to be with other women, whether in groups or one on one.

You women who avoid other women, especially in the local church, are not balanced in your life. You single women who have man friends instead of women friends are fools. Virtually all of those men are just waiting for you to crack the door open to intimacy. None of those male friends are just interested in you intellectually or spiritually. That is the way God made men. They are looking for the woman they are meant to marry, and some of those men are plainly looking for any woman they can lead to bed. And, this happens at the First Baptist Church of Saint Innocent. 

I am even talking about Christian women who have a friendship with their pastor. If he participates in this, he is getting ready to take you to bed. A godly pastor has only male friends. He lets his wife be the friend of the ladies in the local church. Any other arrangement is polygamy and adultery.

In nearly every local church in America is a man who is tired of the whores he has been chasing and bedding down, and he is looking for a godly Christian girl to finally marry and settle down. Let me tell you a secret, dear lady..... That dude will run out on you within thirty days of marrying you. I suggest you get close to a couple of God fearing woman to whom you can be accountable. Other ladies, who care about their lady friends, will warn them when they are about to befriend a mad dog.

The bottom line is this..... Stop letting the media define who you are and who is important in your life. Let God the Holy Spirit do that for you by getting into the Bible, and stay close to a Bible preaching church. And, do make a friend of an older godly woman in the church who is walking righteously with the Lord.

Titus 2:3 The aged women likewise, that they be in behaviour as becometh holiness, not false accusers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things;
4 That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children,
5 To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.

Women..... If any woman friend of yours teaches you to be unlike the qualities seen in verses 4-5, shuck them off at once. A good friend will send you down the road to be a biblical woman.